It’s mine. And it’s personal.
In recent months, I have gone through a lot of changes in my life. One thing that has come up repeatedly during this time has to do with the concept of personal revelation. Now, I already knew it was important, what I didn’t realize before is how hard it can sometimes be to stick with what you have received when those around you don’t fully accept your ability to receive and act upon personal revelation on a daily basis. It’s also hard to consider those people friends.
Revelation is defined as “something revealed or disclosed, especially a striking disclosure, as of something not before realized”. The dictionary further provides a definition in reference to theological usage of the term; “God’s disclosure of His will to His people”.
Personal means “private” or “intended for use by one person” (emphasis added).
“Personal Revelation” means we, as children of God, have the ability to receive information about God’s will for our use as individuals. We can receive information about ourselves and our lives directly from God, so we can use it.
The 15th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, Gordon B. Hinckley told us:
“This gospel is an intimate thing. It is not some distant concept. It is applicable in our lives. It can change our very natures.”
If the Gospel is intimate, shouldn’t we be earnestly seeking God’s will in our lives? We should be working hard to receive information about ourselves and what God would have us do. Recently, in General Conference, Elder Richard G Scott, a member of the Quorum of the 12 Apostles, said, “Be certain that every decision you make, whether temporal or spiritual, is conditioned on what the Savior would have you do.” Peace at Home, 2013
Later in that same session of General Conference, Elder Stanley G Ellis, a member of the Quorum of the 70, spoke about personal revelation (at least that’s what I’m going to relate it to, okay?):
“…thankfully, the Lord will guide us if we seek His confirmation.
"Another question is “Where are we needed?” For 16 years I served in the presidency of the Houston Texas North Stake. Many moved to our area during those years. We would often receive a phone call announcing someone moving in and asking which was the best ward. Only once in 16 years did I receive a call asking, “Which ward needs a good family? Where can we help?”
"In the early years of the Church, President Brigham Young and others would call members to go to a certain place to build up the Church there. The irony is that even now we have faithful Church members everywhere who would go anywhere the prophet asked them to go. Do we really expect President Monson to individually tell more than 14 million of us where our family is needed? The Lord’s way is that we hearken to our leaders’ teachings, understand correct principles, and govern ourselves.” The Lord's Way, 2013
Wow. So Heavenly Father wants us to make decisions based on what He needs and wants us to do. And we can know that through personal revelation?
Uh, yeah. That’s exactly it. The hymn “I’ll Go Where You Want Me to Go” comes to mind (LDS hymnal, 270), “I’ll go where you want me to go. I’ll say what you want me to say. I’ll be what you want me to be.”
Which leads me to one more thing, people around you are receiving personal revelation on what they should be doing and the manner in which they should be doing it. Do Not Question them. It’s their revelation, it’s God’s will for them and they need to do it, this way the ‘Smite Button’ doesn’t get pressed.
Because Personal Revelation is Personal, there are some things to remember when dealing with it.
1."Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.” 3 Nephi 14:6
Just because it’s not your personal revelation doesn’t mean you have to know what it was and how it happened. You won’t get it, and more often than not you will ‘trample under your feet’ the very precious things that another has received.
Personally, in my recent experiences, I have had several people do just this. I have kept my personal revelation to myself for the most part. I usually just say something vague, along the lines of, “I’m doing what I’m supposed to be doing” or "I'm following the Spirit". Unfortunately people have been making comments and jokes that degrade me, and allude to the idea that I am wrong in my decision. It wasn’t my decision to do it, it was Heavenly Father’s decision to have me do it.
Please, please, please, don’t be the person that tramples another person under their feet, even if you are ‘just joking’. That’s not how Heavenly Father wants us to treat each other.
“I have learned that strong, impressive spiritual experiences do not come to us very frequently. And when they do, they are generally for our own edification, instruction, or correction. Unless we are called by proper authority to do so, they do not position us to counsel or correct others.
“I have come to believe also that it is not wise to continually talk of unusual spiritual experiences. They are to be guarded with care and shared only when the Spirit itself prompts you to use them to the blessing of others.” (Ensign, Jan 1983, emphasis added).
Just because someone won’t tell you the reasons behind their actions doesn’t mean they haven’t had a confirmation of the Spirit that they are acting in accordance with God’s will for them. They are only protecting themselves from being trampled and rent, as well as showing Heavenly Father that He can trust them to keep sacred things sacred, which is an important eternal principle.
3. Lastly, Elder Richard G Scott tells us, “When it is for the Lord’s purposes, He can bring anything to our remembrance. That should not weaken our determination to record impressions of the Spirit. Inspiration carefully recorded shows God that His communications are sacred to us. Recording will also enhance our ability to recall revelation. Such recording of direction of the Spirit should be protected from loss or intrusion by others.” How to Obtain Revelation and Inspiration for Your Personal Live, 2012 (Emphasis added).
Like I said before, when we record, remember, and protect sacred revelations, we show Heavenly Father that we trust Him, we respect Him, and He can trust us. Don’t be nosy, you may cause someone to unfairly lose their ability to have Heavenly Father trust them, because you coerced them to share a sacred experience or personal revelation.
Now, before I finish up, I’m going to clarify. This is all in regards to PERSONAL REVELATION. I know some of you may want to bring up another teaching in the church. President Thomas S. Monson, current President of the Church and Prophet said:
“Regarding one’s testimony, remember that which one willing shares he keeps, while that which he selfishly keeps he loses.” Pathways to Perfection  100-101
I agree that testimony should be shared in the proper way at the proper times. But personal revelation is something that is not to be shared in the same manner, if it is shared at all.
Remember, my personal revelation is just that. It’s mine and it’s personal.